UniquelyMe : April 2014

Heeeeey Strangers,

I am the one who is been all M.I.A, sorry about that, a lot has been going on in my life at the moment but all of the things that have been happening are all positive :) Get ready for a long post y'all, hope you carry something out of it.

I have started dating again yaaaaay, it's been a while since i did the whole dating thing, to be honest it's quite an interesting and fun experience am planning on making the best out of it. The constant texting, the long conversations over the phone, lunch dates, movie dates...what's not to love?? :) This past couple of weeks my church Mavuno, have been talking about an interesting sermon series called FINDERS KEEPERS 2 let me share with y'all key points that stood out in the series, Finders Keepers was about learning from God's word about how to find and keep the love that lasts a lifetime. We began with 'The Morning After', where we learnt that relationships today are a big mess because as a result of our rebellion against God, women tend to manipulate while men tend to dominate. The 2nd one was 'Tujuane', where that we are in a society that often blurs the lines, but God has created clear differences between men and women and learnt that before you can enjoy your sexuality, you need to know your identity. The one that stood out for me was 'What men wish women new', this one was quite insightful and kinda made me understand guys better, and it was from a guy's perspective. For starters i got to know guys have needs too, as much as us women want love, care, affirmation and loyalty just to name but a few, guys also want Respect, simple girls, love. The thing that really hit close to home was that 'Men Can't Read Our Minds' hahaha when it comes to us women we want guys to know what a simple OK or am fine means ...those are all code words for am not OK and am not fine but being guys they honestly can't know that unless we really tell them how we feel or what is going through our minds. We need to establish a relationship whereby we can openly talk about how we feel...Communication is key!! The last thing was that 'Ladies we cannot FIX A MAN'- You like the guy but there things you don't approve of, like he hangs out with the wrong type of friends, he's too passive, he drinks a little too much or he's overly influenced by his mom. We figure, 'you know what, once I marry him, I can fix these imperfections'. You take him on as a project. IT DOESN'T WORK!! We should learn to take the good with the bad and make it work, plain and simple. That right there is the truth.com!!

Now on to my outfits for the past week :)

Monday's Work look.
Dress- Thrifted
Neck piece- Some stall at moi avenue
Shoes- A vendor at bus station